The 4 Horsemen: How Gottman Predicts Divorce
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling — these four behaviours predict relationship failure with 93% accuracy. Learn to recognise and reverse them before it’s too late.
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Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling — these four behaviours predict relationship failure with 93% accuracy. Learn to recognise and reverse them before it’s too late.
The anxious attachment style creates a constant loop of seeking reassurance that never fully satisfies. Understand the neuroscience behind it — and the path out.
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